Boundaries and expectations
I think it is a good thing to think about our boundaries and expectations. However, the more I live poly, the more I understand that I’m going to be hard-pressed to throw around blanket statements about what I’d be OK with. A lot of it is conditional based on the individual in question. But I’m going to think more about it.
Then again, I think back and the times when we’ve been at our healthiest, poly-wise, has been when we’ve done things like insisted on time between us being a priority (which is one of our core Poly Values) and also just governed ourselves according to the intention that we love each other and still want to be together: everything else fell into place as a result of that.